Anastasia Dee Dualla

Lieutenant Colonel Anastasia "Dee" Dualla who was a human female serving the Federation, Starfleet in the 24th Century and is currently in Command of the USS Athena. (Star Trek: Athena)

Starfleet Academy
Dualla's father thought that her enlistment in Starfleet was crazy, and he viewed the military as a joke. She signed up anyway because she "wanted to believe in something." This rift with her father would continue throughout her service and the last time they spoke they got in a heated argument; three weeks later the Wraith attacked the colony, and Dualla never got a chance to reconcile with him. His rejection of her career choice stems from traditional Sagittaron beliefs in pacifism, which Dualla does not share.